imminent love fate

I don't know why I even bother looking anymore. I'm 2 1/2 years out of a serious relationship with many short interests in between my last and today. And I've finally come to realize, after all the searching, and first dating, and trying hard, and compromising myself to make that great first impression....all the searching through online dating (Yahoo Personals, OKCupid, Match.com, Adult Friend Finder, PlentyofFish, and even Craigslist), I'm done. I can't do it anymore. I'm exhausted. I've been doing this for over two years and not ONE has been a success long term. There really is NO guy in San Diego that's a match for me. A little part of me wishes I'd realized this before I bought a house.